Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Answers to common questions from parents considering play therapy for their child.

How do I know if my child needs therapy?

Most parents ask this. If your child is struggling with anxiety, mood changes, behavior, school stress, or something just feels “off,” it’s worth exploring. You don’t need a crisis to start therapy—early support often prevents things from becoming bigger challenges later.

What ages do you work with?

I work with children and teens ages 4–16. Every session is tailored to the child’s age, personality, and needs. What therapy looks like for an 8-year-old is very different from a 14-year-old—older kids and teens engage in more direct conversation, insight-building, and real-life problem solving, not just play.

What happens in a typical session?

Sessions are designed to help your child feel comfortable enough to open up. For younger children, that may include play-based activities. For older children and teens, sessions often include more conversation, reflection, and skill-building. In every case, I use thoughtful, therapeutic responses to help your child understand their emotions, build coping skills, and feel more in control.

Is this just playing with toys?

No. Play is simply the language younger children use to express themselves. For older children and teens, therapy becomes more conversational and insight-driven. Regardless of age, every session is intentional and structured to help your child process emotions, build resilience, and make meaningful progress.

Does therapy actually work?

Yes. Behavioral-based approaches, including play therapy, are widely researched and highly effective for children and teens. Most families begin to see meaningful improvements over time, especially with consistency and the right therapeutic fit.

Will things get worse before they get better?

Sometimes, yes—and this is normal. As children begin to work through emotions they may have been avoiding, you might see temporary increases in anxiety or behavior. This is often part of the process, and it typically settles as your child gains better emotional regulation and coping skills.

How long does therapy take?

It depends on your child and what they’re working through. Some children benefit from short-term support, while others need longer-term care. We’ll regularly check in on progress and adjust as needed.

How are parents involved?

Parent involvement is an important part of the process. We will meet every five sessions for a parent consultation meeting. I provide guidance, feedback, and practical strategies so you can support your child outside of sessions. You’ll have a clear understanding of what we’re working on and how to help at home.

What makes your approach different?

I take a personalized approach with every child. Rather than using a one-size-fits-all method, I adjust how I work based on your child’s age, personality, and needs. Whether through play, conversation, or skill-building, the goal is always the same: to help your child feel understood, more confident, and better equipped to handle life’s challenges.

Do you work with teens who may not want to be there?

Yes, and this is very common. I focus on building trust first—without forcing the process. Many teens start off hesitant but become more engaged once they feel respected, understood, and not judged.

What issues do you help with?

I work with a range of concerns, including: • Anxiety and stress • Emotional regulation • Behavioral challenges • School or social difficulties • Life transitions • Self-esteem and confidence If you’re unsure whether I’m the right fit, I’m happy to talk it through with you.

What are the next steps?

If you’re considering therapy, the next step is a consultation. We’ll talk about what’s going on, answer your questions, and determine if this feels like the right fit for your child and family.

Still Have Questions?

I'm happy to answer any questions you have about play therapy or my practice. Schedule a consultation to discuss your child's specific needs.